Once Conservative Now Sensational..

This perfectly describes our ladies in colleges. From hairstyles, fancy attires to loose bras this are what there lecturers face each day when they are before them. I am not saying that this is what all the girls in campus do or wear, but at least you can agree with me that most of them aim at something deep down their hearts and mind. Let us try to figure out what exactly they are after then we will advice our male lecturers.

Most of these ladies are aged between 18 and 24. At this age, they are trying to get out of their comfort zones in order to explore what you did not do when you were at that age. Granted, we live in a digital era where everything seems to be trending in your own way. Basically, everyone wants to be known in her own way. After all, who doesn’t want to be recognized as a celeb? Most of these ladies if not all, have directly out of high school uniform and want to taste the sweetness of college’s free style cladding. I am also one of those who hated to be confined in one color of dress Monday through Friday with an exception of only Sunday.

Now that they are in campus, they do as they want-wear, walk, talk, eat... I warmly welcome you to this liberated lifestyle that has a limit though. Look at this; the men you almost go nude for are either your next door neighbors in the village where you put up, siblings or your friend’s siblings; relatives and to crown it all, most are married and probably with children of your age. Is there point then for you to walk half nude before these?

If you happen to be in such a scenario, kindly pause and ask yourself if this is a worthy course. In essence, what did you come to search for in college? I doubt if it is to be known but to gain skills for your future. My sister, don’t lose the track for many have walked down that slippery ground and have fallen with no one to raise them up. Remember this too. Your male teachers have been here for many years others since the school started offering this education and so, many have passed through their able hands. So how many “super ladies” have they seen? Who are you to change what? What do you have that others did not posses? You have the answers.

My fellow lecturers, you are not innocent either. You are also catalysts to this phenomenon. I don’t mean all of you. In fact I know of a few that are super gentle, responsible family heads, fathers and guardians. You have my innermost commendations. At least I associate with you. Those that are the likes of these girls on the other hand, receive my rebuke. You have come to nurture our ones to the next level. Your level of education dictates that you should be a “smart” person. Live to that. Remember that there are quite a number of literates that yearn to have a chance to inculcate certain values to these girls but have not been fortunate enough to get it but you did. Help them gain the skills thematically.